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Couples Intensives

Accelerate your relationship transformation.


Lori offers 2-day couple’s intensives either in Santa Barbara, or in your preferred location.


  • An intensive offers a way to fast-forward your progress within the relational life therapy model, and also provides the opportunity for some deeper trauma work if warranted.

  • Exit the 2-day intensive with hope and a new vision of how your relationship can be.

  • One day intensives are offered to current clients or those who have already completed a Relationship Bootcamp.


Contact Lori for a Confidential Consultation

Accelerate your relationship transformation.


Lori offers 2-day couple’s intensives either in Santa Barbara, or in your preferred location.


  • An intensive offers a way to fast-forward your progress within the relational life therapy model, and also provides the opportunity for some deeper trauma work if warranted.

  • Exit the 2-day intensive with hope and a new vision of how your relationship can be.

  • One day intensives are offered to current clients or those who have already completed a Relationship Bootcamp.


Contact Lori for a Confidential Consultation

Therapeutic Couples Coaching

Private, confidential transformations in the comfort of your home.


In the privacy and comfort of your own home, experience a discreet and transformative approach to relationship coaching designed exclusively for Montecito and Santa Barbara’s most discerning clientele.


  • This personalized service brings world-class therapeutic insight and emotional intelligence directly to you—no commuting, no exposure, just confidential support tailored to the complex demands of high-profile lives.

  • Whether nurturing partnership, restoring connection, or navigating high-stakes transitions, this bespoke, in-home experience ensures your privacy, convenience, and peace of mind remain paramount while you receive the elevated care your lifestyle deserves.

  • Serving Montecito and Santa Barbara clientele.


Contact Lori for a Confidential Consultation


Online Sessions

AIl in the comfort of your home or office.


Skip the travel time, the traffic, the parking and logon to access the power of Relational Life Therapy in the comfort of your home or office.


  • Lori offers 90 minute sessions, typically meeting every other week, for couples wishing to heal their relationship, strengthen their connection, learn about their patterns, and much more. You identify your own goals in your work with Lori.

  • Partner won’t or cannot join? Not currently in a relationship? Relational Life Therapy offers individuals a route to self-exploration and practices that elevate self and lead todeeper maturity in a wide variety of life relationships, including family and work relationships.


Contact Lori for a Confidential Consultation

AIl in the comfort of your home or office.


Skip the travel time, the traffic, the parking and logon to access the power of Relational Life Therapy in the comfort of your home or office.


  • Lori offers 90 minute sessions, typically meeting every other week, for couples wishing to heal their relationship, strengthen their connection, learn about their patterns, and much more. You identify your own goals in your work with Lori.

  • Partner won’t or cannot join? Not currently in a relationship? Relational Life Therapy offers individuals a route to self-exploration and practices that elevate self and lead todeeper maturity in a wide variety of life relationships, including family and work relationships.


Contact Lori for a Confidential Consultation

Ready to Take the First Step Toward Healing?

Go from surviving to thriving with Lori.

Lori Irwin ©2026. All rights reserved.

Ready to Take the First Step Toward Healing?

Go from surviving to thriving with Lori.

Lori Irwin ©2026. All rights reserved.

Ready to Take the First Step Toward Healing?

Go from surviving to thriving with Lori.

Lori Irwin ©2026. All rights reserved.